Couple Counseling

Couples Counseling:

Are you feeling unhappy in your marriage? Do you feel like something has to give? Perhaps you are contemplating divorce. Marital counseling can provide a neutral space for both of you to come together and explore key issues, relational obstacles, and negative behaviors in order to make a positive change. In turn, marital counseling can initiate a process of healing and allow you both to overcome specific challenges.

Do any of these sound familiar?

You are walking on eggshells around each other
Arguing about the children
You are no longer intimate with each other
You feel unwanted and undesired
One or both of you feel like you are taken for granted
You find yourself having an emotional affair with a past ex or a friend
You stop going out on dates
You work late and sign up for overtime to avoid coming home
You cease to agree on anything minor or major with each other
You feel distrustful and disconnected from your partner
The children are picking up on the growing tension in the home and are starting to act out
You no longer think you are capable of making your partner happy
Other family members appear to be involved in your relationship
You are wondering whether or not this relationship or marriage can make it but at the same time you want to give your best shot to turn this around

It is never too late to change things around. Schedule your free consultation now

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Couples Counseling CTND:

Have you invested twenty-plus years in your marriage only to find yourself in a relationship that stretches thin? You're left wondering how did you both end up here.

Or you blame yourself for how things turned out.

You remember the good old days when your relationship seemed invincible, impenetrable, and you were so in love.

But these days, you treat each other like strangers rather than the loving couple you used to be. And at times, it feels better to retreat to a separate corner of the house to avoid any more painful arguments.

Or perhaps you feel like you never get to say the things you wish to say because one or both of you are repressing how you really feel. With the underlying tension and awkwardness between the two of you, there is no opening for an emotional release. The distance between the two of you continues to grow until you feel completely disconnected.

Or Are you in an explosive relationship where a fight breaks out every ten minutes over the silliest and most insignificant things and you and your partner can longer agree or resolve the conflicts arising in your relationship? The spark that ignited passion is now eliciting leading to misunderstandings from both ends coupled with big blowout fights and feels like an emotional roller coaster. Although you suppress the problem with passionate lovemaking, the constant bickering and shouting is a vicious cycle you both cannot seem to escape. And now anger and resentment are setting in.

Has the unthinkable happened in your relationship? You knew things were not great but you never thought your partner would step out of the relationship? Do you feel shame and betrayal for the relationship you worked so hard to build and now almost seems like a lie or loss?

Did you feel unseen, unappreciated, unwanted, unloved, and undesirable? You took your relationship and your vows seriously and committed yourself to build a lasting foundation and legacy with your partner but several internal and external cracks led you to feel alone in your relationship. Do you find that your needs are not being met and you are bottled up with unhealed emotional injuries only to find yourself in a vulnerable position and opening up to someone you know you should not?

Fidelity does not have to be the end of your relationship or marriage. It can be a catalyst and a wheel to bring greater change, greater understanding of one another, and healing in your relationship that may create a lasting, loving, and strong relationship.